i.e. I engage with what you've said, admit your point that I mispoke, and point out errors in your position. Your counter-argument is then "No YOU'RE a bad man

i.e. I engage with what you've said, admit your point that I mispoke, and point out errors in your position. Your counter-argument is then "No YOU'RE a bad man! I'm taking my toys and going home". That's... not convincing. And pretty much proves my point that I've hit an emotional position. One which can't be addressed rationally. And which provokes an irrational response.