If you can't get it easily for free, or it would take too much time, pay for it. This goes for everything. I could easily have my girlfriend massage me, but I

If you can't get it easily for free, or it would take too much time, pay for it. This goes for everything. I could easily have my girlfriend massage me, but I choose to get a professional. If my girlfriend is too busy for sex, I'm not going to bother her and/or beg.