"His tumor was first diagnosed in 2003 and he basically ignored it for a year in favor of alternative treatments and healthy eating. By the time he actually had

"His tumor was first diagnosed in 2003 and he basically ignored it for a year in favor of alternative treatments and healthy eating. By the time he actually had surgery, the cancer had progressed to mets in his lymphs and his liver." And, to make it clear just how ridiculous his decision was, among the alternative treatments he used included coffee enemas. There's literally no reason at all to believe coffee enemas can cure cancer, but that's what he was doing while his cancer was spreading. Everyone should be able to make their own treatment decisions, of course. But, my dad was killed by the distinctly not good kind of pancreatic cancer, and I feel a little entitled to be pissed off at folks who squander the incredible fortune of having a treatable case and ignoring every bit of relevant science in favor of the advice of quacks.