Can confirm that sometimes I have the impression that my SO's cousin is living quite a nice life (housewife, three children, husband's blue-collar salary) compa

Can confirm that sometimes I have the impression that my SO's cousin is living quite a nice life (housewife, three children, husband's blue-collar salary) compared to us (childless, combined 6 digit salary, can't afford a 3 bedroom house without signing a 30+ year mortgage).