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Especially recently, for every one person who actually is sincere in their desire to learn and grow, there can be three or more people who are trying to be a co
by s73ver 9y ago
Especially recently, for every one person who actually is sincere in their desire to learn and grow, there can be three or more people who are trying to be a concern troll or are otherwise asking in bad faith.
- Mz 9y agoThat isn't news to me. But a problem I face is that when I try to inform and empower women, I am often viciously attacked and accused of "blaming the victim." I was sexually abused as a child. I have thought long and hard about this problem space. I don't believe we will see real progress until we can stop assuming that women are always the victim in any interaction with men, men are always abusive and men are the only ones who can change this situation. And I find it baffling that people seem to not see that the position that the onus is entirely on men to change their behavior is an excellent way to make sure women remain disempowered victims.