There is no "off the record" in meat space. Its scarier out there than online, and online is scary enough. In smaller parts of the country the pool is smaller

There is no "off the record" in meat space. Its scarier out there than online, and online is scary enough. In smaller parts of the country the pool is smaller and everyone knows everyone eventually so trash talking will get reported. There are ways to fix political (or religious) oppression problems, but none of the solutions involve or enhanced by intoxication. "Most of them aren't alcoholics" Can't get thru life without a bottle? The bottle feels better than real life? Might want to talk it over with someone.