I've been hearing a lot of this from people in tech and I think I know the reason why this happens to guys like you. Here are some of my observations: - You a

I've been hearing a lot of this from people in tech and I think I know the reason why this happens to guys like you. Here are some of my observations: - You are in tech, so you are possibly an introverted nerd. Which means, you feel drained with social interaction. Unfortunately, women won't come without interaction - You are in tech, so your profession requires constant studying and updating skills, which means less time outside, meeting and interacting with women - You are in tech, you allowed companies to make your life miserable with stupid interview processes, perf reviews, PIPs etc. Ever occurred to you how much you are compromising in your life to "win" at these stupid artificial processes? - You are an Indian in the US. I'm guessing on H1b. Which means you are basically a modern day slave unfortunately. Do you realize how much freer people are back in India? If real life is more important to you than substandard life in US, go back to India. Seriously, life in India is FREEDOM. Live in some nice cities, meet people, meet neighbors, celebrate festivals - You are in tech, so you are more comfortable with computers than with people. Women are not computers - Your go-to place to ask such an issue is HN? Perhaps cut down time in front of the screen and meet real people. This action of yours gives a clue as to how unhealthy your relationship with computers is - You are seriously behind socially. There's no other way to put this. Women are humans, they have social and emotional needs. A healthy woman will have had some relationships. You haven't had a relationship before? Guess what, most healthy people in their 20s do. You are the odd man out, nothing changed with women Now you know why so many people choose not to do STEM?