You said it yourself. You expect a woman in her 30s with no relationship experience who hardly ever drinks alcohol. Without saying anything about those preferen

You said it yourself. You expect a woman in her 30s with no relationship experience who hardly ever drinks alcohol. Without saying anything about those preferences, it's only a small number of women who fit that requirement. Do you have the same requirements for male friends? If not, why does a relationship like marriage need to be different? I understand that you want someone who shares your experience in not having had a relationship, but consider that you are in an increasingly small group as you get older and the type of people in that group probably tend to be reclusive and not meet each other anyway. I would encourage you to consider if sharing that experience is really so important in the bigger picture.