I've struggled with this for years until I realized that I'm the same person at home and at work and actively sought to be this way. This is in contrast to som

I've struggled with this for years until I realized that I'm the same person at home and at work and actively sought to be this way. This is in contrast to some peers who have a professional personality (which is still gemslwves, but with restricted access to core identity) and a at-home personality. Separating the two and turning one on/off at will is the approach I am striving towards.