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> In fact what YOU wrote is actually sexist, since it suggests that the corrective action would be to act differently toward her, but not the men. No - the "co
by vertex-four 9y ago
> In fact what YOU wrote is actually sexist, since it suggests that the corrective action would be to act differently toward her, but not the men.
No - the "correct" response is to avoid talking over everyone. Helps everyone, overall helps women (as a group) a little bit more.
> But even if that's the case, you are still saying that women are incapable of speaking up for themselves the way the men did to gain their voice back from the moderator.
Nope, I'm saying that there's a sort of cultural training against interrupting people, and women are more severely affected by that cultural training since it ties in with a lot of "be nice/the good girl" pressure that women get while men are pressured to be more competitive. What I'm specifically not saying is that this is something inherent in being female - it's a cultural issue, not a female one.
Or, in other words - it's easier for men to interrupt people because it's the norm for men to interrupt people and so they have practice at it. It's harder for women to interrupt people because it's not the norm for women to interrupt people and so they have less practice at it. Doing something you don't normally do is hard, even if you have the knowledge on how to, and it's especially hard when you know you're going against the norm to do it.
I'm sure most people go against the norm sometimes - but we should really be creating social environments in which people don't have to go against the norm to get the same result as their peers.