Is it the advice thats part of the problem, or the reaction? The advice is great, why should a panelist take charge if he/she is being run-over by the moderato

Is it the advice thats part of the problem, or the reaction? The advice is great, why should a panelist take charge if he/she is being run-over by the moderator? The real issue is, like you said, that women are not 'supposed' to be pushy like a man.