I recognize that different people have different perceptions so in no way I could go and say that something is not the way others perceive it. That is why I ask

I recognize that different people have different perceptions so in no way I could go and say that something is not the way others perceive it. That is why I asked if you actually saw the video, I have a different conclusion after seeing it. I see that there is a problem, while you don't. You see it as normal, for me it is far from that. Probably you could be a bit more open-minded in regards of other people's perceptions and less dismissive to problems that you fail to see.