Most people are not grown-up enough to realize that it's not effective to runn away (or lash out at) anybody who/anything that makes you feel "bad emotions." I

Most people are not grown-up enough to realize that it's not effective to runn away (or lash out at) anybody who/anything that makes you feel "bad emotions." It takes guts and patience to experience the bad and look for the good in it, and I've met very, very few people (of any age) who do it on purpose and only a slightly larger handful who do it naturally without realizing.