It matters to me how they got there. There's a limit to what I'm prepared to do to rescue someone from his own bad decisions. Besides, this was a point on lan

It matters to me how they got there. There's a limit to what I'm prepared to do to rescue someone from his own bad decisions. Besides, this was a point on language. If you make a lot of money but blow it all on expensive cars and travel, you're not "barely getting by".