I think you're making a very fair point. I really don't think she meant it in a pressuring way - but then I personally liked her - even if it was understood as

I think you're making a very fair point. I really don't think she meant it in a pressuring way - but then I personally liked her - even if it was understood as that by some. I think it shows a bit how a) communication is important b) women can't quite do it right around childbirth.