Kids are still trying to figure out their self-identity. Having them believe that they are naughty is not a good thing, as it will create a feedback loop. They

Kids are still trying to figure out their self-identity. Having them believe that they are naughty is not a good thing, as it will create a feedback loop. They rule I've always used is to blame the behaviour (you're doing a naughty thing) if it's negative and praise the child (you're so kind) if it's something you want to reinforce.