> I'd go further and say that the cure is psychological time, i.e. having more intense experiences per hour. If I understand you correctly, you're basically sa

> I'd go further and say that the cure is psychological time, i.e. having more intense experiences per hour. If I understand you correctly, you're basically saying what is more bluntly phrased, "get a life," or "get out more," in which case I entirely agree with you. As someone who once lost an object of limerant obsession, I can say the worst thing you can do is stay in the same place, doing the same thing. I noticed when traveling last year, I bumped into a number of freshly broken-up people. They are clearly wiser than I was.