I take it you are the kind of people who want others to pat you on the back while you complain but don't care about solutions. Why do you want to live and adhe

I take it you are the kind of people who want others to pat you on the back while you complain but don't care about solutions. Why do you want to live and adhere to the customs of your current country? Do you really need to get married? If the UK is a problem what would be the problem with forfeiting your UK citizenship to acquire the one of you future wife? There is a moment when you have to commit to a choice and stop living "le cul entre deux chaises" (the ass between two chairs).