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Wow, that's interesting and indeed very expensive. Certainly there are people in the US who spend that much on a wedding too, although my philosophy is that the

by tdeck 9y ago

Wow, that's interesting and indeed very expensive. Certainly there are people in the US who spend that much on a wedding too, although my philosophy is that the more expensive a wedding is, the more stress and misery for everyone involved. I know this is a site about hacker topics and it's not my place to question your life choices, but it seems like sex is pretty important to you. That being the case, wouldn't you want to find out if you and your partner are compatible in bed before getting married? You can always use multiple forms of contraception in tandem to all but eliminate the risk of an unplanned pregnancy.

peterburkimsher 9y ago
It's not sex that I want, it's a family. Why have sex if I can't have kids? Why have kids if they have to kill me? Why have kids if I'm not allowed to live in the same country as them? No, I don't want to commit fornication in order find out whether we're "compatible in bed". That is partly due to the political problems, and partly due to my religious beliefs. My parents had a chance to kill me before I was born, and it would have been called "contraception". They didn't. I will choose to abstain from sex until I get this political mess sorted out though, so I can deny them the joy of grandchildren.