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Hello everybody, I am the one who posted this article and it is because I have been trying to find an answer for so many troubling things for such a long time (
by mgh2 16y ago
Hello everybody, I am the one who posted this article and it is because I have been trying to find an answer for so many troubling things for such a long time (wait to see my post on why I shared this)...among them is that this might be the reason to the 50% divorce rate in the United States.
But before we go into that, I have a question for all of you: Can someone you have been limerent about, being nonrequited, dissapointed...basically having gone through the whole pain process...still be trusted and cared about? This is actually the main reason why I sought for an answer for so long.
- jimmyjim 16y agoOf course. The whole point of Yee's writing is that it's imperative to transition into a companionate phase from the ephemeral and almost-superficial limerent one.
- ytNumbers 16y agoWhen it comes to advice: Wise men don't need it, and fools won't heed it. And those who want it the most, like it the least. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Life's too short to waste it with people who can't/won't return your affections. Of course, if masochism is your thing, by all means go ahead and reopen that old wound, and bring on the pain.
- mgh2 16y agoExcept that the limerent one was her, and I am just trying to give advice of the very pain she taught me. Yeah, I admit, it is complicated.
- loewenskind 16y agoThe advice remains the same. You/she tried. It didn't work out. Move on to the next.
- ido 16y agoWhy do this to yourself? Go on with your life and find someone else to trust and care about. There is no shortage of humans in the world.