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Out of curiosity how do you value yourself? If you are able to have the pinnacle of technology in your hand connected to the global information storage while tr

Out of curiosity how do you value yourself? If you are able to have the pinnacle of technology in your hand connected to the global information storage while traveling easily. What more do you think this world has to offer you? Do you want servants?

teddythetwig 9y ago
I can't speak for the parent, but some people value experiences over things
- hueving 9y ago
  Given that I'm actually in the former camp due to my love of travel, the way you phrased this is pretty condescending to people who hate spending money on concerts, hotels, airlines, etc. Additionally, many people who like to buy 'things' are getting them for the experiences they provide. For example, it's hard to argue that someone who buys a VR system or a hot tub isn't getting 'experiences' when they use them with family and friends. Just something to consider if you ever use this to berate people too 'materialistic' for your tastes.
  - cr1895 9y ago
    I'm curious how did you interpret the comment above so negatively? Not clear to me how it was a value judgment or condescending in the slightest.
    - notduncansmith 9y ago
      My experience (in the US, for context) over the past few years is that valued judgement and condescension are far more common than they used to be, so GP may be more inclined to interpret things that way.
  - teddythetwig 9y ago
    I'm not passing any judgement or condemnation. Everyone is allowed spend their money as they like, as well as value what they like. I was more aggravated by the tone of your final two questions "What more do you think this world has to offer you? Do you want servants?" As if one's desire to discover the amazing things our world has to offer is a bad thing...
wiz21c 9y ago
Very good question. I value Internet (a lot). But I don't need a phone to reach it. I value being able to move around, but I don't need a Ferrari to do it. I value meeting other cultures, but I don't need these to be 10000km's from my home. Now as how I value myself, well, I dunno. I'm more interested in how the others value me :-)

teddythetwig 9y ago

I can't speak for the parent, but some people value experiences over things

hueving 9y ago
Given that I'm actually in the former camp due to my love of travel, the way you phrased this is pretty condescending to people who hate spending money on concerts, hotels, airlines, etc. Additionally, many people who like to buy 'things' are getting them for the experiences they provide. For example, it's hard to argue that someone who buys a VR system or a hot tub isn't getting 'experiences' when they use them with family and friends. Just something to consider if you ever use this to berate people too 'materialistic' for your tastes.
- cr1895 9y ago
  I'm curious how did you interpret the comment above so negatively? Not clear to me how it was a value judgment or condescending in the slightest.
  - notduncansmith 9y ago
    My experience (in the US, for context) over the past few years is that valued judgement and condescension are far more common than they used to be, so GP may be more inclined to interpret things that way.
- teddythetwig 9y ago
  I'm not passing any judgement or condemnation. Everyone is allowed spend their money as they like, as well as value what they like. I was more aggravated by the tone of your final two questions "What more do you think this world has to offer you? Do you want servants?" As if one's desire to discover the amazing things our world has to offer is a bad thing...

wiz21c 9y ago

Very good question. I value Internet (a lot). But I don't need a phone to reach it. I value being able to move around, but I don't need a Ferrari to do it. I value meeting other cultures, but I don't need these to be 10000km's from my home. Now as how I value myself, well, I dunno. I'm more interested in how the others value me :-)