That's exactly what I'm saying. The lie sold is that the thing you "love doing" requires little effort; will show you no failure or frustration. That's what th

That's exactly what I'm saying. The lie sold is that the thing you "love doing" requires little effort; will show you no failure or frustration. That's what the self-esteem group puts forward when they run from failure in the name of hurt feelings. It's a lie.