I would say instead of 'Do not talk to your wife' I would say 'Do not only talk to your wife'. Your wife will have her own biases and motives, maybe towards you

I would say instead of 'Do not talk to your wife' I would say 'Do not only talk to your wife'. Your wife will have her own biases and motives, maybe towards your financial success more than your happiness. Or maybe she only wants you to be happy regardless of how other people are affected. Get a range of opinions. If you are considering drastic moves, experiencing burnout, definitely talk with a therapist. A therapist will definitely know how to help you work to the core of your issues and feel better.