> But the relationship between developer and user is not symmetrical. I disagree. I see them as identical. Yes you're offering a free product but it's still a

> But the relationship between developer and user is not symmetrical. I disagree. I see them as identical. Yes you're offering a free product but it's still a product, even if you don't want to call it one. The developers are your users. They are the ones using it. But even a developer may not know how your code works well enough to submit a PR. > Fielding a few hundred rude and entitled support requests for your free software can make anyone grumpy. Once you have a few thousand users your inbox is a source of frequent misery. For sure but I don't know how you avoid this without also isolating yourself from likely valuable feedback / information. Similar to fielding customer requests for a product a good 96% of the ideas / things customers want are going to be a terrible idea. If I've learned anything from running products it's this: make it as stupid easy as possible for your customers to give you feedback / get ahold of you. When you do that you're going to get an absolute ton of noise but the bits of signal hidden in there can be amazing and you'll be able to directly help those along the way. From there it's learning how to manage the flow of information coming to you and trying not to take the bad personally (which is very hard to do when it's your baby / code).