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You write as if you are trapped in IT. You say you are burnt out. Perhaps the feeling you are trapped is coming from inside you rather than the world? Burn out
by sunir 9y ago
You write as if you are trapped in IT. You say you are burnt out. Perhaps the feeling you are trapped is coming from inside you rather than the world?
Burn out comes from using willpower to force yourself to do work that you have no hope will succeed.
The feeling of being trapped comes with that. The Fight Flight Freeze response.
The feeling is inside you. You can fly to another industry but the feeling will go with you and you will remain unsettled.
Because burn out is a physiological phenomenon, one that you feel in your your body, focus on physical recovery. Sleep, go outside, reconnect in your relationships, exercise. Get the adrenaline and blood pressure down.
Then it is worth doing other things to build back the feeling of hope. But use that as the guide. Do I believe this will be fun? That I will succeed at this? You need to retrain your sense of hope in your own efforts.
It takes time. A few months to 2 years perhaps. Forgive yourself daily. You aren't the first or the last person to feel this way and there is nothing wrong with how you feel. It was a way to stop you from continuing doing something self-destructive. The primary lesson is to do things that are self-constructive from now on. Things you want to do. Things you wake up to do. Don't stop yourself from those things any more.
- custos 9y ago"You can fly to another industry but the feeling will go with you and you will remain unsettled." <- Totally incorrect. I took a break from software development due to burn out, got my CDL and drove an 18 wheeler for a few months. The experience was practically a relaxing (after training) paid vacation where I could see the country, and made feel so much better. I was even able to go back to software development afterwards with renewed drive. So... no, the feeling won't follow you.
- sunir 9y agoAgreed. As I wrote, you can and should change scenes but with the intent to do something fun or where you feel successful. OP seemingly wants to grind new skills the hard way but that is just more agony. To regain a sense of control and success in ones life requires more than following through on feelings of escapism.
- bovermyer 9y agoThis feels like a fascinating story waiting to be told. I don't suppose you blogged about this anywhere?