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And at the same time, for many people it's an insidious way to reduce other people's accomplishments so that they don't feel inferior in comparison.
by MikeCapone 16y ago
And at the same time, for many people it's an insidious way to reduce other people's accomplishments so that they don't feel inferior in comparison.
- megablast 16y agoMaybe, but I don't think that most people who say this are trying to belittle their idol, rather complement them on the fact that they have a greater skill than others. That no matter how much time someone else puts into it, they will never be as good. And there is some truth to this. You are born a good jocky, most people couldn't train hard to be that small.
- MikeCapone 16y agoI'm not saying it's always conscious, or that this applies to everything. But I think it has a lot to do with how you see the world, and whether you have what Carol Dweck would call a growth mindset or a fixed mindset. I wrote about this a few years ago: http://michaelgr.com/2007/04/15/fixed-mindset-vs-growth-mindset-which-one-are-you/ http://michaelgr.com/2007/04/15/fixed-mindset-vs-growth-mind... I think it applies to many things, and too few people are aware of the distinction.
- TobiasCassell 16y agoUpvoted for the Carole Dweck reference.