The better question is how will you feel when your children starts calling the nanny "Mommy". As someone that has used au pairs, nannies (both live in and out)

The better question is how will you feel when your children starts calling the nanny "Mommy". As someone that has used au pairs, nannies (both live in and out), and daycare, we finally decided one of us staying home was the best for our children. I'm male, I've been home with the kids since September 2015. I don't know yet if it was the best decision for me, but studies seem to show it is the best for my children. I'm going for happy kids that contribute to society, I don't define their or my success by amount of money in a bank account.