Would you say it is more of a privilege or more of a burden to be able to spend time with your own children? Women tend to be the primary caregivers because th

Would you say it is more of a privilege or more of a burden to be able to spend time with your own children? Women tend to be the primary caregivers because they choose so, and they are able to choose because it is their privilege because they are the ones giving birth to the children. It is funny to me that male feminists think they are heroes if they take over primary care, while in reality they are robbing mothers of their privileges. Of course it is up for every couple to decide who takes care of the children, so in the rare cases where the mothers prefers her career, sure, fathers can step up.