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We often read interviews of high achievers talk about how they balance their family-life/kids/work and yet still accomplish so much in their professional life.
by dba7dba 9y ago
We often read interviews of high achievers talk about how they balance their family-life/kids/work and yet still accomplish so much in their professional life. It's tough but they can manage, and we assume, of course, they are intelligent/hard workers.
Well, I know a guy who had quite close contacts with high-wealth/high-achieving individuals due to his work in startups. He himself came from a upper middle class with a degree from an Ivy League.
What he commented about how high wealth individuals balance family life and still kick ass in their professional life was quite amusing.
He basically said, it's the nannies.
From the time the kids are born till they go to junior or high school, a parent basically has to deal with dropoff/pickup for daycare/school/activities. And it's non stop when school's in session.
If a parent happens to be a homemaker, great. But these days high achievers rarely seem to marry a homemaker as their friends/contacts are from college/grad-school/work who also have capacity/desire for achieving something in professional life.
And of course if you are in a high income bracket, you also tend to have more activities (private lessons for this and that) for kids. And this means more rides to give.
If you have nannies that can handle feeding/rides/laundry(omg, the laundry)/etc, then the parent(s) can put in long hours in office without interruption, fly to other cities/nations for meetings with little hassle, etc, all of which is required to kick ass and takes names in one's professional life.
The question is, can you build your income level high enough, and fast enough, so that you can afford nannies when you have kids?
- feistypharit 9y agoThe better question is how will you feel when your children starts calling the nanny "Mommy". As someone that has used au pairs, nannies (both live in and out), and daycare, we finally decided one of us staying home was the best for our children. I'm male, I've been home with the kids since September 2015. I don't know yet if it was the best decision for me, but studies seem to show it is the best for my children. I'm going for happy kids that contribute to society, I don't define their or my success by amount of money in a bank account.
- dba7dba 9y ago> The question is, can you build your income level high enough, and fast enough, so that you can afford nannies when you have kids? Haha, I meant that to be a sarcasm but I guess I wasn't clear enough. No it's great that one of you decided to spend more time with kids. Kids grow up fast.