You discuss mostly about places, strategies but it is about emotions and human beings, not business. If she is a women and you a man, she will take much more

You discuss mostly about places, strategies but it is about emotions and human beings, not business. If she is a women and you a man, she will take much more risks than you. Forget strategies, try to be nice and perhaps more than anything, be predictable: You must be trusted by her. That said, find an equilibrium between what you drop and what you consider to be part of yourself, learn to say "Yes" and learn to say "No".