I fail to understand how online dating or social events might be wrong places where to find a person you love. The "trick" is to use a bruteforce attack method

I fail to understand how online dating or social events might be wrong places where to find a person you love. The "trick" is to use a bruteforce attack method: try meeting as many potential candidates as possible, wnile reducing your resources shortcomings (work out, learn skills, read books and watch movies, travel). Learn to chit chat and be sociable, helps with engagement and retention of potential candidates