see this recent discussion: "Self-Compassion Works Better Than Self-Esteem" https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14314958 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id

see this recent discussion: "Self-Compassion Works Better Than Self-Esteem" https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14314958 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14314958