Depends on what you're getting for those mortgages, I guess. If your job requires you to live in a specific place or have a hellish commute, then I think compa

Depends on what you're getting for those mortgages, I guess. If your job requires you to live in a specific place or have a hellish commute, then I think comparing (and griping about) like for like is fair. E.g. a finance analyst whining about his tiny NYC apartment to his friend in Indianapolis with a tiny apartment, etc.