Their choice to buy a house like that in such a market and have a kid on top of a huge mortgage with almost no free time. Consider an alternative: live togeth

Their choice to buy a house like that in such a market and have a kid on top of a huge mortgage with almost no free time. Consider an alternative: live together in a tiny $3k/mo apartment, save hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, move to a low-cost market, and retire at 35 with an amazing amount of money. THEN have children while the investment portfolio goes bananas over the next few decades ...