I also have this problem. I spent a large part of the weekend creating a tool for my developers at work to make their live easier instead of spending those prec

I also have this problem. I spent a large part of the weekend creating a tool for my developers at work to make their live easier instead of spending those precious minutes with my wife and 8 month old sweet girl. Some argue that we already spend time on what is important to us. If it wasn't important, than we wouldn't be spending time on it. In my case, my work is more important than my family at times. In yours, the argument would go, having fun is more important that pursuing your "dream". I think it takes a lifestyle change. A rehash of what is _actually_ important to us and redirecting our attention and energy to that. Good luck, oz. I hope you make it!