Going through a downward phase of this cycle myself for the last year, and have to point out that it can be very tough. In previous downward cycles (we've been

Going through a downward phase of this cycle myself for the last year, and have to point out that it can be very tough. In previous downward cycles (we've been together 25 years, so this is far from the first time) I've found that I almost have to forget the past to embrace the present. Having a good memory is not always a blessing