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I'm a bit the same. Never committing fully. It doesn't have to be immediate in today's age, but I want to be better at not waiting until the last minute to say
by maaaats 9y ago
I'm a bit the same. Never committing fully. It doesn't have to be immediate in today's age, but I want to be better at not waiting until the last minute to say I wont come. I know how annoying that is when I'm the one taking initiative to a get-together.
- robinjfisher 9y agoThe key is being able to respond promptly and being committed to the answer one has given which aligns with the point you raise on timeliness. There are two discourtesies: 1) Not providing a committed answer until the last minute; and 2) Reneging on a previous commitment, particularly at the last moment. Responding promptly is important if only to say, "I cannot commit at the moment but I will let you know for definite by [date]", where date is sufficiently in advance of the event in question.