You are right. AM does seem specifically for sneaky commitment-breaking, which is one reason I think they are scummy. I also believe it bad to cheat on a commit

You are right. AM does seem specifically for sneaky commitment-breaking, which is one reason I think they are scummy. I also believe it bad to cheat on a commitment. I suppose I lost my point, which was this shouldn't be illegal. Not all scumminess should be illegal since you will end up making criminals out of decent people who do a scummy thing. Road rage is bad but if everyone who succumbs to it was a criminal then half the country would have a criminal record. A better solution would be a culture change where this commitment isn't strongly pushed onto people from social pressure when it's obviously not the right thing for that person. Another better solution would be reducing social stigma around divorce.