You kinda sound like you're not a parent. Many developers don't live to work. Those who do may not be great parents; or aren't interested in it at all. It's no

You kinda sound like you're not a parent. Many developers don't live to work. Those who do may not be great parents; or aren't interested in it at all. It's not hard to do; and still stay relevant and current. In fact, I could care less about it. I actively despise computers from 5pm - 8am.