Sometimes that's the right answer, sometimes it's better to just hit your head against it for a while. (This can be an individual thing, I'm definitely a learn

Sometimes that's the right answer, sometimes it's better to just hit your head against it for a while. (This can be an individual thing, I'm definitely a learn-by-doing type and need to be "spinning my wheels" sometimes. Others benefit from talking things through). It would be nice to be trusted to make this call rather than having a ritual to force the talk-things-through option every time.