> Trust me, people will find this out after it's born, and they'll be plenty judgmental then. And hey, rightly so. What you're describing is human scale judgme

> Trust me, people will find this out after it's born, and they'll be plenty judgmental then. And hey, rightly so. What you're describing is human scale judgment. Example: a church music director doesn't allow such a person to join the choir. With medical privacy out of the picture, what you'd be rationalizing here would be internet scale judgment. E.g., a script kiddie trolls the set of all known people who had children with fetal alcohol syndrome in an attempt to trigger them to kill themselves.