There's no such thing as "your true self". Personalities are naturally multi-dimensional and depend on context and who's present. But, we like consistent people

There's no such thing as "your true self". Personalities are naturally multi-dimensional and depend on context and who's present. But, we like consistent people because it means less guesswork. I tend to play a role at work. I try to be professional (avoid politics, be polite, friendly, helpful, kind) because that's the context - you're there to work with other people so you put them first.