With respect, I don't think you are telling this person anything new here. While not hikki, I've studied this community for a couple of years and it's precisel

With respect, I don't think you are telling this person anything new here. While not hikki, I've studied this community for a couple of years and it's precisely these "normie" platitudes that they resent. Again, I know you just want to help. But I've learnt that they are a pretty self-aware bunch who understand their condition and how it could be changed. The problem lies elsewhere, as it's usually either a deeply compounded crippling self-worth, an ingrained tendency to not want to socialise, or both.