This strikes me as rather callous, or as well, something that only someone in a relatively secure and high-paying line of work (like software development) -- an

This strikes me as rather callous, or as well, something that only someone in a relatively secure and high-paying line of work (like software development) -- and of course, no kids to take care of -- could even begin have as a take on the situation You nailed me there! I am a factory worker in my fifties. I raised a child alone. No kidding.