You have to have your own standards/narrative that you really believe in. Or rather you have to shake off the years of schooling where you've been judged and a

You have to have your own standards/narrative that you really believe in. Or rather you have to shake off the years of schooling where you've been judged and accepted it. Living below your means is a good ethic that allows you to battle idiot bosses. Defiance of the lunacy in the workplace is key for mental health.