Easy to say this from where you are. I was of that opinion too. For some, it can be like a abusive personal relationship. They are so invested in this that all

Easy to say this from where you are. I was of that opinion too. For some, it can be like a abusive personal relationship. They are so invested in this that all they can think of is to make it alright; divorce or separation is not an option. Some people just get up and go while some others want to stay and try to work things out.