There are many places in the US where you can live, it doesn't have to be Silicon Valley. Nobody owes you a house and a comfortable lifestyle with a large fami

There are many places in the US where you can live, it doesn't have to be Silicon Valley. Nobody owes you a house and a comfortable lifestyle with a large family in the Bay Area without you providing enough value to the market to live in the most expensive place in the country. There are many other states in the US where you could live, and many other places even in CA that you could move to. If you want to live comfortably right in the eye of the storm, that's your personal choice and the market won't bend over backwards for you.