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Why Are You Single? Perhaps It’s The Choice Effect
- jleyank 16y agoRemember two things: 1. Choose when the good outweighs the bad. 2. Timing is everything. Nobody() settles down with (or makes) the perfect choice, rather they choose things that are net wins. SO's are sometimes a bother because they're always in your space, but there are times when it's important to have somebody around to help. And keep in mind that while you might be in a "target-rich" environment now, that will change (possibly suddenly). Leaving school, moving out of the big city, or having friends decide to commit parenthood - these can greatly restrict the pool of candidates, leaving you trying to catch up. Play the game, but always keep an eye on the clock. () - ok, you know somebody who did, but I didn't and it's still statistically insignificant.