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>i learned about 5 years ago that changing peoples' minds is an impossible, pointless task. And you learned the wrong thing. It is possible to change peoples m
by winfred 9y ago
>i learned about 5 years ago that changing peoples' minds is an impossible, pointless task.
And you learned the wrong thing. It is possible to change peoples minds and behavior with online conversation. It just isn't easy and it doesn't go quick (a single line directly pointing out a flaw often isn't enough, you have to bring across that you exerted effort, to show you care). If over time enough people invest time and effort into pointing out that you are wrong in something, you will change your mind. You might not admit it, you might not even notice it, but it will happen.
You might be right that it is perhaps not the fastest or most efficient approach, when you suggested spending time and money on actually influential things (though I'm not sure what you have in mind there).
Just look at the responses you have received so far here. Several people with different backgrounds have responded to you and said "you are wrong, you can change people's minds in online social interactions".
Now you have a choice. Will you hold on to your (really not very good for mankind as a whole) statement, so that it self-fulfills and you can still consider your own opinion correct and your thoughts and behavior consistent?
Or will you take that leap and believe people can change and act accordingly going forward?
Edit: I hope you realize that if you respond to my plea with a convincing statement and I believe you and change my mind, we both enter seriously troubled waters.
After all, do you really want to change my mind on the fact that one cannot change someone's mind in a social media setting, in a social media setting?