Yes, I've had these thoughts. The first time, I cried when the realization hit me. All of the things we couldn't do anymore and the hole that he would leave wa

Yes, I've had these thoughts. The first time, I cried when the realization hit me. All of the things we couldn't do anymore and the hole that he would leave was terrible to think about. I changed my mindset into something very cliche, but it works for me: We can no longer create memories together, but I can still cherish the ones we had and pass on the same good he brought into my life, to others. Sort of like remembering one's legacy and passing on the torch. I don't believe there is an intrinsically correct answer for these human situations, so picking the most efficient one is best.